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Stormy Conditions for Couples Detected

Whilst some may see the romantic side of spending time with a loved one, watching the rain bounce off the road and skipping puddles, many find long periods of togetherness and no sunshine just too much.

To support this view Tees Valley's leading law firm TBI detected a significant increase in new instructions for their family department, specifically in June and July, when families experienced one very wet weekend after another.   The firm saw twice as many new clients with family related problems in June and July when measured against their regular instructions.  June 113% up on what was a fairly typical May and July saw an even higher number of enquiries.

It is well documented that poor weather can seriously affect our moods and as has been identified with those suffering from SAD (Seasonal Affective Disorder) lack of sunlight can lead to depression, mood swings and anxiety.

Family Solicitor and partner at TBI Vicky Moreton has experienced the problem at first hand with a number of couples venting their frustrations on each other and ultimately seeking to separate.  "It's very sad that the weather can play such a part in our lives but when couples have underlying issues it can take as little as an unexpected weekend together, in the same four walls, to bring them rushing to the surface.  We always encourage clients to seek a mediated solution and to try and repair any damage before taking drastic steps such as separation or divorce.  Unfortunately many incompatible couples live together through convenience and it is only the combination of circumstances that force them to communicate; albeit in a negative and often aggressive way.  The other key stress point for families is Christmas.  Many make a big effort to "get along" at that time but we regularly see the casualties in the new year who have resolved never to face the experience again."

So what can be done about this rather damaging aspect of our soggy Summer?  Vicky has some advice; "Don't leave it to a wet weekend to start discussing problems, if you are unhappy it is always better to try and communicate at the earliest possible opportunity.  Bottling up your emotions simply leads to a stormy time in the home matching the weather outside."